"You shall not harden your heart nor shut your hand from your poor brother,
you shall open your hand wide to him and willingly lend him sufficient for his need.
You shall surely give to him and your heart should not be grieved when you give to him
because for this thing the Lord will bless you in all your works and in all to which you put your hand...
You shall open your hand wide to your brother, to your poor and your needy in your land."
It isn't easy but 'because of this thing the Lord will bless you.' : )